Why would anyone want to have brunch/lunch/dinner with their ex?
Glad you ask. :P
Well, there are only 5 possible motives behind an "ex whatever-outing-you-plan-to-have".
1. They want to get back together
Duh. I mean, what else? Obviously something is still going on in there and that little hope is still hoping for a change of heart. You will talk about anything and before you realize, you guys will be talking about what happened between you two in the past.
2. They want to kill you
Okay, alright, maybe not kill-because it's against the laws. Say, maybe they just want to poison you instead. :P Or maybe, they just want to scream at you later, letting go the anger or what-so-ever. Perhaps you hurt them badly. Who knows.
3. They actually want to give something back to you
You guys were happy but still broke up later. And they gave you something as a gift but you don't think you deserve it any more or maybe you don't want to see it in your room or you scare you new partner might get jealous. For any reason, you just want to give them back. Nothing more. (I guess)
4. To rub your face in how great they're doing
This one gotta be kinda hurt. I mean, he/she moved on and found someone later. And things are cool between you two, so later you meet up but he/she started talking about how well he/she is doing now, especially when you are not and still thinking about them.
5. Just to talk as normal friend
Neh, I'm just out of idea actually but trust me, even if you guys are actually gonna go out talk to each other as if there's nothing happen at all before, somehow the topic will be related to the fact#4. Either you intentionally/unintentionally talk about it or they will. He/She most probably say "Suck it" indirectly to your face so be smart.
Oh well, I do believe stuffs like this surely will take place somehow, it just depends how bad it might be ended up. You might be remain as friends but somehow these topic is not avoidable.
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