For guys, they normally need to make up their mind on three decisions.
1. Single vs In a Relationship
Just face it. While some guys prefer to be single because they could enjoy their life, hanging out friends, knowing more and more hot girls, being so carefree, but some prefer to share it with someone special.
The problem would be, when you being single for so long, all of your friends started dating, there will be a point where you might feel lonely and think maybe you should start looking for "the one". And then you'll think, you might ended alone as you grow older, which might also rush you into the process.
But same thing goes to those committed into a relationship, argument, disagreement and etc will take place eventually. And at that point, it is either making you realize that this girl could be and could not be the one for you. Besides that, this might taken away all your time with your friends, buddies, family, because you will eventually spend most of your free time with her, until both of you argue, again. And the whole process continues. :P
2. BF-GF vs Husband-Wife
When you are being very long in a relationship, and you decided that 'hey she is the one for me', eventually you will be thinking about marrying her and have your own family.
And when you do, you just automatically lock yourself to her, it is about the same as being in a relationship status but she just lock you tighter in everything you wanted to do. And you might wanna be extra careful if you are meeting another girl, you don't want to get any trouble explaining to "who why where when what" questions later. ;)
3. Hang out vs Go home
Well, even if you friends ask you to hang out after work, maybe you could join a few times at first but slowly it decreases. Why?
At some point, you will eventually choose to go home because she cooks/orders food for dinner. And after dinner, trying to go outside to hang out will be quite impossible, except for her to follow you around or you don't have a child yet for family bonding or night time. :P
But don't worry, it's your choice though guys. The best part? You marry the woman you love, and hopefully she understands and will not lock you that bad. :P
Actually it same goes to girls.... Girls also sacrifice their time and youth for the one... Can't just say is only girls like to control guys.... Guys also control the girls~
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